As we approach wedding season, I thought it might be fun to share my do's & don'ts for attire when attending a wedding as a guest. (J & I have already attended a wedding & an engagement party this year & we are sure to have a couple more in the coming months.) Finding the perfect outfit to wear can be tough, so today I'm going to simplify it as much as possible for you!
DO: Think of the season/location. You wouldn't wear a long sleeve, black dress to a beach wedding, it just doesn't make much sense, so my number one tip would definitely be to consider where the event is & what time of year. Google the location of the event if you have to! I like to avoid a black dress as much as possible for weddings, even in the winter, since I think it's such a common color that women wear. Instead opt for a rich jewel toned color like navy, emerald or burgundy. In the summer, try a pastel shade, a bright color or a feminine print. Remember to bring a shawl of some sort if you plan to be outdoors - the weather can be tricky no matter the time of year!
DON'T: Wear white. Although there is much discussion on whether guests can wear white to weddings nowadays, I still think it's best to go the more traditional route & let the bride be the one wearing the white dress for the day. Stick to a champagne or blush pink if you must wear a light colored dress.
DO: Wear comfortable shoes. One of my favorite parts about a wedding is the dancing!! In order to dance the night away, I always make sure to wear comfortable heels; an ankle strap or lace up detail helps to make sure your foot is secure. As a rule, I try on my shoes beforehand and spend hours walking around in them to make sure they are broken in and comfortable. (Packing a few band aids in your clutch is a safe bet too!)
DON'T: Show too much skin. Weddings are typically family friendly events so be sure to be tasteful in how much skin you show. A rule that I try to follow is to keep one half more modest, so if my legs are showing in a short dress, I try to make sure the neckline of the dress is more modest and vice versa.
DO: Overdress. If you are really unsure of what the dress code, I would always say go one step dressier than you think. It's much better to show up at a wedding overdressed than feel out of place because you aren't dressed up enough.
Dress: Zara (similar) | Heels: Steve Madden | Lipstick: Revlon
Hope you all found these tips helpful!
Do you have weddings coming up this season? What do you plan to wear?
XO,
Michelle Paige
These are great tips for this coming wedding season! Beautiful dress!
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Definitely love the idea of overdressing! I tend to be the most dressed up person in my group of friends, lol. You look gorgeous in this color.
ReplyDeleteMe too - even when it's just grabbing dinner, I love an excuse to dress up!
DeleteThese are some really fantastic tips. Your first tip is so important. I mean, it's basic knowledge to factor in location & season, but I often forget. Oops. :]
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For sure! I always end up googling the location so I can get a feel for the decor!
DeleteSuch a gorgeous dress.
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I'm obsessed with the color of your dress, and it looks gorgeous on you! Loving these tips. I never think to wear comfortable shoes, and always end up limping at the end of the night!
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Yes - I love this pair with the ankle strap - they are surprisingly comfortable!
DeleteI love this color on you! Perfect for a wedding. We have one this weekend, and I am so excited! Good tips.
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What fun! Enjoy!
DeleteWhat a lovely dress! The detailing at the waist is beautiful
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What a pretty dress! Love the color and embellished waist! Perfect for a wedding!
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Omg Michelle, AMEN to the Do's and Don'ts!!!! You look fabulous btw. As always. ;)
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So lovely! Thank you for sharing this to us.
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Great tips! I overdress whenever I am unsure. You can blend in better if you are overdressed, but a too casual look is so obvious!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree! No one is going to look at you funny for wearing a glam outfit!
DeleteGreat tips. I especially agree with the first two tips. I cannot stand when people wear white to weddings, especially women. It's rude to the bride. Come to think of it, the tip about comfy shoes is spot on. I tend to do bright or floral dresses, usually short or knee length dresses for Summer time. Unless the wedding is dressier or more formal I opt for a maxi. Your Kelly Green dress is beautiful and in a classic and feminine shape. Plus, one can never go wrong with a one-strap heeled, nude sandal!
ReplyDeleteSo glad you agree with these tips & found them helpful!I totally agree with the white rule at weddings. Let the bride have her day in white - there are so many other occasions to wear that white dress - go for a color :)
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